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10 Tips To Making New Year’s Eve WITH Kids Stylish and Special

January 1, 2016
Celebrating , Holidays

Lame. That’s how this NYE party girl turned parent would describe my first new year’s eve with my child. Don’t fret if yours wasn’t spectactular this year. Realize there’s too much unnecessary pressure on having an amazing night and also know that celebrating in style with kids can happen -maybe just next year.

Having just experienced my 3rd NYE as a parent, I’ve since learned how to best celebrate with kids and ensure that it never sucks again. If you’re an overwhelmed new parent wondering how to elevate your new years with kids into a stylish soiree that is both memorable and fun, read on for my top 10 tips:

DRESS UP and GET GIRLY. Remember how during your single days, half the fun of new year’s eve was about getting to wear the new outfit, and getting dolled up? Continue the tradition! As you can see, for us that meant matching outfits and fun glittery mini-hats. Maybe for you that might mean sparkle and shine or a dress divine! (Clearly I’ve been reading too much Dr. Seuss lately). Even if you’re doing a simple stay-at-home evening, consider dedicating some time during the day to do something extra to feel a little more glam – ’tis the season! These days for instance, I never have time for a manicure but on NYE, I made sure to carve out time during the day for a mini-mani. Even 2.5 year olds really get into this! Just doing this gave me reason enough to want to celebrate! For me, this involved some pre-planning. I made sure to get all household chores out of the way with a thorough cleaning the day before so that I could free up time and not spend the day cleaning the toilets like I did my first NYE with baby.
RECORD THE OCCASION! Kids grow fast and you’ll want to remember how small they were come next new year’s eve. If you’re a momarazzi like me you won’t need the reminder to take photo and video. But remember to also think DIY Photobooth! Free NYE themed props are downloadable here, or just buy a couple cheap hats at Party City like we did. If you really want to be festive though create a fun photo backdrop (even leftover wrapping paper or Christmas tinsel will do!) and try video pocketbooth’s app. Or if you don’t want to go through the extra trouble, just grab your camera phone and find a simple background to snap some pics for your social media like we did and concentrate your efforts on the other items on this list. (A busy parent can only handle so much, I KNOW!)
DECK THE HALLS. Every occasion deserves a little festive decor. Last year, I created 2015 out of paper napkins and made an entire dessert bar backdrop and display to match.
If you’re not hosting others though you might just want to opt for a simple banner like this one from last year where I videotaped my toddler wishing everyone a ‘happy new year” and then proudly sent it off to her grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Really anyone who would listen to my toddler speak so well haha.
Or perhaps you’ll want to concentrate on festive table presentations like I did this year.
MAKE A MOCKTAIL. Be your kids’ first bartender while teaching them all-important NYE traditions such as clinking glasses and saying ‘cheers!” Sparkling cider or water are easy options but you can get as creative as you like. This year we opted for the sparkling cranberry cider and a rose’ sparkling wine to match our red party theme and I added rasberries to our fancy champagne glasses. Juliet loved joining in on the fun! And so will your kids!
SPRINKLE! Incorporate confetti into your New Years Eve lesson and use it as an excuse to slather everything in sprinkles! Think fruits, ice cream, frosted desserts and even milk cups!This year, Juliet enjoyed decorating cookies with sprinkles and tomorrow morning she is continuing the funfetti tradition with toast spread with nutella and sprinkles of her choice! My little baker LOVES getting her hands on these things so I make sure to have a whole variety of sprinkles for all our baking needs!
ENJOY A SPECIAL MEAL. Notice I didn’t say make a special meal. Parents have a lot on their to do list and some of us might not have cooking as our specialty. Don’t let that stop you from having one special occasion meal though! If you love Chinese food, spend the day in Chinatown sampling the best of from various places. Order in your entire family members’ favorite foods if you have too. Overpriced NYE dinners are out of the question for most families like us in NYC. (I mean c’mon, Olive Garden here charges $499 pp on NYE!) So last year, I cooked a feast and invited another family with a toddler over for a chic little get together. You could also consider a mini tea party like the one I hosted for toddlers on new years day here. Whatever you do, make sure to have one out of the ordinary meal to mark the special occasion.
DANCE! Blast the music, dance like no one’s watching, copy the dancers you see on TV, copy each other. Twerk. Play a game of freeze dance. This is a fun, free activity that will lead to guaranteed laughter and really get the party started. (sorry no personal pictures to share here).
MAKE NOISE. Kids are natural noisemakers and this is the one day we can encourage them to get wild, bring out their instruments and blow party horns. You could even have a scavenger hunt with the family to see who can make the neatest noisemaker out of ordinary objects found throughout the house or craft your own. Post birthday party, I once made a rattle shaker with leftover candy stuffed into a water bottle for instance. Juliet got a kick out of that one.
GET CRAFTY. Even if you’re no Martha Stewart, anyone can handle adding 4 numbers onto a pair of glasses you already own. Here are full instructions on how to make the more elaborate ones below. (2016 glasses)
YEAR-END REVIEW. Wonder in awe at how the year flew by as you create a photo album or decorate a scrapbook together as a family. As a family, choose your favorite photos from the year and print and frame them. Or if you don’t have time for any of that, simply go through some of your photos and videos with your kids and spend some quality time taking a stroll down memory lane. I love bringing back memories with Juliet who loves watching herself on video. Her reactions and recollections are priceless.
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS. Staying thankful is always in style. End the year on a positive note by being aware of all the good things in your life. There are tons of ideas here on family projects that promote gratitude.

So there it is! Are you feeling inspired to do it all again next year? How are you resolving to make your next new year’s eve special and stylish for you and your kids? Let me know if there are other things you would add to this list! I want to hear from you.

To see how we stylishly celebrated new year’s eve in the past using and then re-using Oh Joy for Target party decor, click here!

Epic Mommy Fail Moments

December 1, 2015
Life , Parenthood

I’m a perfectionist but I’ve learned as a mother that achieving that sort of standard all the time is mission impossible. Motherhood is far from perfect. We moms may try to achieve some semblance of it in one way or another but something always happens to make us feel we’ve fallen short . Sometimes we all out fail. I’m not talking about the days you gave your child screen time so you could get some me time or the day you fed him/her processed food, I’m talking about epic fails like the below, real-life examples.

“This morning I lost my house keys and my car. The good news is I found my house keys. They were in my car. I found my car parked at the train station cause I forgot I drove it there yesterday. Oh, and I just lost my wallet.”

“I made homemade cinnamon rolls for my husband’s birthday this year. It was so much work and I was so exhausted that I let my 2 year old eat them for breakfast, lunch, and you guessed it… Dinner too!”

“I bribe my older 2 with cash to play with the 2 yr old so I can get a break.”

Confession time. I have two mommy fail moments that will never cease to amaze me. I’ll start with the most disgusting one. You know those mornings where you got such little sleep that even when you get out of bed, you were still half asleep? Motherhood is filled with these type of mornings. If you’re a mom, I know you know what I’m talking about.

I sleep-walked my way to the bathroom and brushed my teeth, half closing my eyes the entire time. I brushed and brushed with determined vigor, remembering how the dentist instructed me that we should brush for at least 2 minutes each round. As exhausted as I was, I conscientiously made sure to dig into all the crevices all the while never bothering to look up into the mirror, cuz you know, I was half asleep. It wasn’t until I finished that I looked up to find there was no usual toothpaste lather and down to find that I had actually been brushing with diaper cream!

EWWW! Who put that there?!? was my initial horrified reaction. “Am I going to die?!” was my next. After hurriedly spitting, gargling, rinsing and flossing, I had to call poison control cuz that’s what the tube scarily suggests if the product is ever ingested. I’ll tell you, that woke me up pronto! I felt like a fool having to explain my predicament to customer service but she calmly explained that I’d live (phew!) and that many other moms have done the same thing. (seriously???!)

My 2nd confession is the most mortifying epic fail. I’m a nice person. Really. I rarely ever say anything negative about other people. I look for the good in others. But this particular incident made me look, well not so nice. And I regret it to this day. I was tasked with securing a babysitter to watch my child and one of her besties so us parents could enjoy a double date night out on the town. Knowing that J’s friend had a penchant for pretty sitters, I asked the potential sitter for a picture during the final (phone) interview stages (and also cuz I was curious if I would recognize her since I know and see tons of nannies during the day as a SAHM). She promptly and without hesitation sent me one and with bad judgement, I thought it would be amusing to forward it over to my friend who was waiting for sitter updates with a snarky comment that read, “not really a looker but seems nice otherwise.” Ehem. Except, I didn’t actually send the photo to my friend but rather (gulp) back to the sitter I was considering!! ARGH!

It was as if all time had stopped moments after this dreadful realization. My mind raced as to how I could salvage this texting error and possibly still book her (time was running out and I was out of better options). Luckily, she was a forgiving soul, and my PR background helped me talk my way out of this PR crisis and soon enough she was at our doorstep, both of us ready to move forward from the awkward start. Of course, as I’m getting the kids oriented with their new sitter and we’re sitting around playing with instruments to the music blaring on our loudspeakers, the next song sings, ‘if you’re BEAUTIFUL and you know it clap your hands!’ (since when did they start changing the lyrics to ‘if you’re happy and you know it’ and WHY?!?? oh WHY???” Double whammy. I was screwed. Our eyes met and I was so horrified that to this day, I don’t even remember if she clapped her hands.

#mommyfail. What’s your story?

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And if you want to read about my real-life #daddyfail story, click here.

The below memes are found from dear baby.